Have you ever tried putting yourself in the position of the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.) before you complained?

It's almost ironic with all this fighting between sunnis, shias and quranists and most of them resorting to insults. Especially those who are against quranists because they talk about doing as Muhammed did. Well countless times I've seen Muslims write about how Muhammed was insulted, had trash thrown on him, etc, yet he never replied with a bad word or bad deed to those who did so. Don't you hadith followers think you should think about that next time you insult a quranists since you want so much to be like Muhammed and think you are told to act like him?